Showing posts with label blogging. Show all posts
Showing posts with label blogging. Show all posts

Monday, November 3, 2014

Setting Up for Successful Writing

I am not about to offer an all inclusive list for successful writing.

Rather, here I sit, after sleeping only 2-3 hours last night and I have a headache that cannot be ignored. My writing goal for the day is at least 2,000 words (the words used to write this blog post do not count). Though I stayed up until the wee hours of the morning trying to meet my goal for yesterday, I was around 200 words shy of complete yesterday's goal. Merely three days into my thirty day challenge and I am already 200 words behind. I am determined to make up for that.

I don't have time to nap. That option is out.

Instead, I am attempting to set myself up for fruitful writing today by -

  • Stay away from distractions. My house is full of distractions: dirty laundry to be washed, vegetables that need to be cooked, clutter that needs tending, a bed that is lonely for company, kitties that need attention. For me, the coffee shop is the perfect place to work. I cannot concentrate in any space that is quiet, such as a library. A coffee shop is just enough noise to keep me content, and I can tune out (the noise) when needed.
  • Do not analyze my writing. Given I have little time in a day to devote exclusively to writing and that my daily writing goal is not small, I need to put the petal to the metal. Or, rather, I need to keep my fingertips moving along the keyboard. Successfully completing this 30 day challenge, NaNoWriMo, will give me a complete first draft when all is said and done on November 30. I am certainly no Goethe. My first draft will most likely NOT be my final draft. Getting the ideas on paper is more important than having everything perfect the first time.
  • Stay hydrated. Thankfully, today is a caffeine day. I'm not sure how I would be alert or clear-headed enough to write otherwise. Need loads of water to counter the caffeine. Even on non-caffeinated days, hydration is important. Lots of caffeine. Even more water.
  • Eat well. Eating is important; it is fuel for the brain. When I tell my students that part of exam preparation involves sleeping well and eating well, they are shocked. Yes, the brain needs nourishment to function well. Providing nourishment for the brain does not mean eating junk food. Eating foods high in protein are helpful. The food I packed for working this morning include: mi-fen (rice noodles) with shrimp and greenery - pictured below, yogurt, and fresh fruit (strawberries, blueberries, a banana).




  • Set realistic goals and give myself accolades for the progress I make (instead of being hard on myself for not accomplishing more - which is what I tend to do).


Friday, October 31, 2014

Why Blog? Blogging with Purpose

For 6+ years, blogging was a part of my routine, inasmuch as eating or sleeping was concerned. Not quite that much, but close enough. My blogging was born out of keeping friends and family up to date; and trading information, educating, encouraging others.

Then something life-changing occurred. Call the 'something' spanning an elongated period of time. This something turned my life upside down, inside out, into dizzy craziness. Being vulnerable and completely transparent was difficult.

So, I went off the blogging grid.

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The desire to blog did not extinguish. But, the purpose became muddled, and my desire for privacy and the space to process intensified.




Well, I am back. With some modifications.

The intent really has not changed all that much. Transparency and keeping it real are still important to me; sharing experiences, whether painful and gut-wrenching or beautiful and refreshing, are important not to hide. That is crucial to healing as well as relationship building.

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My hope is to play some facilitating or helping role in healing or relationship building.